After I orgasm from sex I “won’t let my boyfriend back in”, how can I prevent this?
I know this is a strange thing to complain about, but my boyfriend makes me orgasm too quickly. After I do I “tighten up” and I “won’t let him back in”.
I feel really guilty because I’d rather have him get there than me and he can’t even penetrate me after I cum. Is there anything I can do to prevent tightening up? Or do I just have to prolong it as long as possible?
October 18th, 2010 at 3:24 pm
relax.. after and oragsm you should be wetter and able to have penetration easily, try lubrication and him easing in gently.
October 18th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
I heard they have these exercie balls for girls to put up thier Vag**a. Supposedly they will make the muscle there alot strogner and give you more control over what you want to do…Hope that helps
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October 18th, 2010 at 4:46 pm
after you do it, have him seduce you and maybe continue on w/ some foreplay. i know when I am in the middle of the big o i get so tight and tense I end up pushing my hubby out 🙂 lol. but i’m one of those girls that can have a big o as many times as he lets me.
October 18th, 2010 at 5:05 pm
I really think this is a by product of your abuse by your mothers partner( I read your other questions) that your freezing upout of subconscious disgust or guilt i think maybe youo should have a talk with a therapist or a sex therapist…good luck and by the way i think its a blessing you orgasm so fast some women never get there