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My wife started smoking in the house again and now we have children, what should I do?

My wife quit smoking in the house a month ago, but now since she’s so stressed about work problems she’s started smoking in the house again. I don’t like it. I want her to stop. Since a month ago, too, we have a baby that’s 3 weeks old. Now, my parents used to smoke in the house when I was a 60’s child but since then we’ve learned a few things about smoking around children. What should I do?

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16 Responses to “My wife started smoking in the house again and now we have children, what should I do?”

  1. Lyar said :

    Throw a cup of water at her. Tell her not to put your children in danger, and to stop being selfish. Sure she’s stressed, but that’s no reason to kill the children.

  2. Lubyloo said :

    Tell her how you feel and ask her to smoke outside. She’s being selfish, especially with such a young baby in the house.

  3. Kitty Coast said :

    both my parents smoked in the house for the first 15 years of my life… my mom quit 3 years ago this christmas, and has forced my dad to smoke outside since. my dad is lazy, but not lazy enough to go out side to have a cig several times a day. I turned out fine so far, but its not a smart idea with all of the newer resources saying its unhealthy. just ask her to go outside… or try chantix like my mom did to stop completely. but if she is breastfeeding, i dont think she can take it….. but idk. good luck!

  4. Sounds Painful said :

    Okay, I’m a smoker, and I’m very stressed. Also, it is REALLY cold outside.

    But I have a toddler, and I would NEVER smoke in our home. That’s disgusting and selfish.

    Get her a space heater and kick her @ss out to the porch or the garage. Smoking inside has been linked to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome and can asthma and a myriad of other complication.

  5. Fallen Angel said :

    Not cool at all. Not good for the health of the children. You need to tell her that. She should be thinking of the kids health, take it outside!

  6. johosho said :

    don’t wine unless you want her to quit having sex with you

  7. LaVada A said :

    Just talk to her about smoking in the house and how you don’t like the smoking in the house and around the kids. It is really nothing too much you can do but just talk to her about it. Good luck.

  8. Karen Smith said :

    Get a water pistol or better yet, one of those super soaker guns and let her have it every time she lights up.

  9. Sunny said :

    Ask that she smoke out side or in the bathroom with a vent fan going. As a smoker I know it’s hard to quit, but because of the baby she should make an effort to not smoke around him/her…not only can it lead to asthma, but more immediately the child WILL have more ear infections (yeah, weird, I know, but true) Check out the new vapor cigarettes as this could be a great alternative for her. Good luck.

    For those suggesting squirt guns etc…she’s not a frigging cat and that’s a great way to get a smoker to smack you.

  10. David said :

    Throw her cigarettes in the bin.
    Buy her a Gym membership, she needs time and space to work her stress out daily.

  11. ladybug said :

    This is the time for you to stand up and say no way you are not going to smoke with our baby in the house.
    She can go outside can’t she.
    It very harmful for the child so make sure she doesn’t.
    Say that you leave with the baby if she does not stop.
    Maybe scare her some.
    Good Luck.

  12. Fourth Downs Syndrome said :

    Tell her to quit it, or you’re taking the children and leaving! That’s one of the most selfish things I’ve ever heard! Stress or not, she has no right to put your childrens lives in danger and jeopardize their health by smoking in the house.

  13. Steel Chimera said :

    Tell her if she wants to smoke that’s between her & her lungs… but take it outside.

  14. bootsontheroad said :

    You go talk to a lawyer and file for divorce. That way you won’t have to worry about it and you will get to pay child support for the next 18 years.

    What a bunch of controlling people we have here.

  15. Apple Day said :

    .. 1 she shouldn’t smoke at all b.c of the baby its not good at all (as im sure you know) also your child needs to have 2 healthy adults in its life . you should have a serious talk about getting her to quit!!! .. you also can not let her smoke inside OR IN THE CAR!!!!!!!! you need to be firm and unforgiving on this one thing for the health of your whole family .. especially your child!!! get her to qqquit ..it will be hard but tough she needs to

  16. Yes said :

    You should let her smoke in the house as much as she wants. Smokers have rights too.

    ^That was sarcasm. She’s a selfish idiot.




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