When do you stop playing hard with a guy and start expressing your true feelings?
I keep playing distant because I don’t want us to move too fast, but I feel like I should stop soon or else I’ll seriously send the wrong signal.
I have some reservations about this guy though, and I really don’t want to reveal my feelings until I can settle these issues first (like, is he really over this other girl). What should I do?
March 24th, 2011 at 1:23 am
reveal your feallings it won’t be that bad
March 24th, 2011 at 1:57 am
I think you should start being more serious, and maybe one day just ask him about her n stuff!
March 24th, 2011 at 2:16 am
Tell him your feelings RIGHT NOW, as waiting for the right moment often gives the guy enough time to find a girl in whose pants he can get easier.
March 24th, 2011 at 2:51 am
1. Playing Hard to Get is just wrong because guy’s cannot tell if your not interested or your just being mean..2. Talk to him, because im sure if he likes you, we won’t have any feelings for other girls..3. Just be friendly, and don’t be afraid to tell him how you feel..Good-Luck
March 24th, 2011 at 2:52 am
first off , guys like myself are too slow to figure that you are playing games with us , playing hard to get , not seeming interested and all the other junk are just that games. so stop playing them . like i said we my be dumb but we are not stupid we do figure things out and can formulate situations right out the blue. so your best best is to just tell the dude how you feel . if he turns you down or says hes not ready good , this way you are not investing too much time in a guys that doesnt want what you want. sure us guys love for a girl/lady to just come up to us and say take me , but if that all we ever do then why bother. i myself like that challenge of getting the girl so id play the game with you , but most men/boys dont so why play them and get hurt?
March 24th, 2011 at 3:35 am
You are scared because you think you’ll send the signal that you are not interested in him and he’ll start looking for, and may find, someone who is. Completely understandable.
Getting over someone takes time. But it also takes being in a relationship with someone else to move that process along.
He is obviously trying to establish a relationship with someone else. If he wasn’t then he would be trying everything in his power to get back with this other girl. But you aren’t seeing that. You are merely assuming that his feelings for this other girl still exist, and they possibly very well could still exist, just not in a way that would cause him to try and get back with her. It’s just part of the separation process that we all go through when we break up with someone.
Show him that you are interested in him. Stop hiding your feelings from this guy. If you don’t want to lose him them don’t allow him to get attached to another girl before you get your chance with him, which he WILL do if you wait too long.
March 24th, 2011 at 4:30 am
i think you should tell him how you feel.
June 6th, 2011 at 11:03 am
Never. You aren’t allowed to express how you feel. You should shut up about it or else, you’ll get slammed. Just make him chase and stalk you till you report him to the cops.