My birthday is coming up and…?
My birthday is coming up and my girlfriend has offered to take my virginity on that day, and I accepted, hiding my emotions. But truely, i’m scared shitless. I want to, I love her, and I have protection, but i’m scared. What should I do? I’ll be 16 on my birthday.
February 7th, 2011 at 4:45 pm
Sounds like you’re not ready. You need to wait until your married to do that.
February 7th, 2011 at 5:25 pm
just do it
February 7th, 2011 at 6:24 pm
You should tell her you want to wait untl your married, don’t give it up your too young and protections doesn’t all ways work.
February 7th, 2011 at 6:51 pm
if youre nervous, youre not really ready, just wait, trust me it will be soo much better if you do, and youll love eachother so much more for waiting.
February 7th, 2011 at 6:56 pm
If you’re not comfortable with it, don’t do it. You shouldn’t be having sex anyway. You guys are way too young. Just enjoy being kids while you still can without complicating things by having sex.
February 7th, 2011 at 7:39 pm
do it if you want, don’t if you don’t.
February 7th, 2011 at 7:55 pm
Nike Style!
“JUST DO IT!”
February 7th, 2011 at 8:14 pm
isnt that illegal unless u r 18?
uh… its all up to you!
February 7th, 2011 at 9:13 pm
Only do it if your ready
February 7th, 2011 at 10:10 pm
tell her and plz wait!
…..maybe til your 17th b day???!!!
February 7th, 2011 at 10:15 pm
Ha ha..so funny. I’ve never heard of a guy being scared.
February 7th, 2011 at 10:38 pm
hmm…just do it!!
and Happy Birthday to you!!
remember to give me a piece of cake on your birthday!
~^-^~
February 7th, 2011 at 11:31 pm
sounds like you’re nervous about it, tell her that as much as you want to, you don’t think you’re ready, but that it doesn’t mean that you don’t love her. just explain it to her and I’m sure if she loves you, she’ll understand.
February 8th, 2011 at 12:12 am
Your girlfriend can’t think of anything better to give you? Tell her no thanks. I wonder how many other guys she has given this gift to.
February 8th, 2011 at 12:21 am
if you dont want to lose it then jus tell her! its not that hard to say “babe, you know i love you n all, but idk bout what you wanna do on my b-day. im jus not ready for that kinda thing right now. maybe someother time when i feel more comfortable about it k?” thats all you gotta say! or even if she says “dont be a p*ssy” then she aint for you! gurls that really love you wouldnt do anything that you dont want to do, & if she really does love you, then she’ll understand!
GOOD LUCK & TAKE CARE!
February 8th, 2011 at 12:24 am
dont jump into this, it is a very big issue. you are young and have a lot ahead of you. WAIT. there is no need to rush into it just because the offer is on the table. be a man and see the responsable side.
February 8th, 2011 at 1:11 am
Listen to what your heart tells you.
The answer lies within
February 8th, 2011 at 1:21 am
i think you should be comforable and it should mean something to you and i think you should do it when your ready not because yourgirlfriend said that she’ll take it on your birthday and plus something can go wrong you know
February 8th, 2011 at 1:45 am
Wow…that’s quite a gift…go slow..don’t rush…remember to pleasure her as well…let her tell you what she likes and what she wants you to do…let her be your teacher…and just because she gives it to you for the b/day doesn’t mean you should always be expecting it either..
February 8th, 2011 at 2:14 am
Don’t do it Wait til you are ready and able to raise a baby
February 8th, 2011 at 2:55 am
Aarika, it’s not fair to tell someone to just do it, if he isn’t ready. Tell your girlfriend that you appreciate the gesture, but would like to decide the time and day yourself, tell her it’s a manly thing. if she is not understanding than maybe she isn’t for you, and also 16 is very young. I believe if you treat sex casually you loose some of your soul because the act of creating life is not something to play around with
February 8th, 2011 at 3:34 am
well if you’re THAT scared then talk to her about it and she’ll hopefully understand. Having sex is not only getting physical, but being comfortable with each other’s bodies. Since you have protection the dont worry bout that part. Dont worry if you goof up, everyone feels awkward at their first time (its normal). Your girl will take the lead while you’re doing it and pretty soon, you’ll wise up and know how she likes it and how to satisfy her.
Stay cool and good luck
P.S: Happy birthday to u in advance 🙂
February 8th, 2011 at 3:53 am
Hi, U should ask God to help u out with this. and be brave. good luck on ot. And happy birthday to u. happpy birthday to u.
February 8th, 2011 at 4:26 am
If you have any reservations then don’t do it. YOu’re still young and even though sex is appealing to any healthy person it’s really not as important as you may think. This isn’t something you want to rush into even if you love her. You’re going to be 16. You have your whole life ahead of you to be thinking about having sex. If you are not ready then DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!! I was older than you when I lost my verginity and I’ll tell you what I gained some responsibility that I can’t relinquish now. So you just think about this. Protection or not. The only safe sex is no sex until it’s the right time.
February 8th, 2011 at 4:47 am
ask dad.