Is it weird to give your boyfriends mother a valentines day gift?
im not family so would that be weird?
im 23, my boyfriend is 23.
we are in an LDR(long distance relationship).
i dont know his mother that well (ive only spoken to her 3 times).
we have been together for quite sometime.
we are serious.
we are committed.
so she may someday be my mother-in-law.
should i give her something?
May 15th, 2011 at 8:02 am
Yea i wouldnt…
May 15th, 2011 at 8:59 am
yeah its a little weird but just do it so she could see that your a good girl =)
May 15th, 2011 at 9:13 am
depends on the person
May 15th, 2011 at 9:24 am
no its not weird. ecspecially if you are close.
May 15th, 2011 at 10:14 am
I wouldn’t think so. I think it’s a nice gesture. —————-
May 15th, 2011 at 11:04 am
What a lovely thought. Yes a very nice card telling her how much you love her son and that you look forward to knowing her better is not only appropriate it is plain old school manners.
May 15th, 2011 at 11:49 am
Its not necessary, but would be a nice gesture 🙂
May 15th, 2011 at 12:35 pm
Nah.
She won’t expect you to, so why make it even more wierd?
May 15th, 2011 at 1:27 pm
no, it is to soon. I would wait until you really know her and you start a bond together….good luck!
May 15th, 2011 at 1:33 pm
No, it’s not weird. She’ll appreciate it and so will my mother. My gf is scared to meet my mother. 😛
LDR TOO
May 15th, 2011 at 1:58 pm
Yeah, that sounds nice. You don’t have to but if you find something she would like then you could. I got something for my bf’s mom for christmas but not sure for vday <3
May 15th, 2011 at 2:21 pm
yes get her one it could’nt hurt.
May 15th, 2011 at 2:50 pm
Yea I recommend you not do that
May 15th, 2011 at 2:56 pm
No.
That will be very generous.
It shows that you have respect and love for her.
May 15th, 2011 at 3:09 pm
I wouldn’t….It would feel like I’m sucking up.
Send her gifts for Mother’s Day, Christmas, Birthday, Easter…ect, but leave Valentines Day for the boyfriend…
If you send her a gift, send it ” just cause” you thought she’d like it, not because it’s Valentine’s Day.