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I’m 14 years old and he is 17 what do I do?

Ok so I meet this guy and he is 17 but he is the sweetest nicest person I have ever meet and I really like him and he likes me but I’m afraid if cause I’m 14 it’s to much of an age difference. There is no sex or anything involved he would never do that and I’m not doing it till I’m at least 18 so. But I need help

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12 Responses to “I’m 14 years old and he is 17 what do I do?”

  1. Patrick said :

    He is 17. He will be sweet and nice until he talks you into having sex with him, and then he will find someone else when he turns 18 that is 18 or older. It is way too much of an age difference.

  2. BornStar said :

    Not sure why this is in the marriage divorce section but Im going to roll with it. I would say first try not to give yourself an age limit for sex, but wait til you are married..its worth it trust me. But anywho on to your question, personally its all in your chemistry. If he feels you are mature, and you all are not having any major difference, then it should be fine. Only problem is , once he becomes 18 it will then be illegal for him to date you..just consider that. Plenty of nice guys out there your age..

  3. b.music said :

    Walk the other way & go read a book!

  4. J Gal said :

    You can be friends but anything past that is illegal. What you feel now is common. Especially with older men. If you like him as a person and him you then you can be friends until you are both of an appropriate age to see if there is something more.

  5. Marilyn said :

    listen he’s nice of course he’s nice, he will be patient because you are not ready. but as soon as hes ready to make his move he will take advantage of you.
    no good guy at 17 would even see a 14 y o child.
    he wants you first to feel comfortable around him, to trust him, so when he has sex –you wont call it rape.
    he wants you to think it was your idea.
    he will very gradually take control of the situation so you won’t tell anyone.

  6. Sir Viever said :

    The sex part is the most important. Waiting to have it always means you can still decide what to do about it with greater and greater maturity. Even waiting past 18 means you can keep considering all the ramifications of what’s going on in your life at the time. If he doesn’t pressure you . . . great. If he does, remember you can only give it away once.

  7. Rowdy said :

    I’m with BornStar. Why this is here I have no idea. But what the hell,we’ll give it a shot.

    Honey,just what do you need help with? Getting older? We all do that one day at a time,no getting around that one. The age difference? Three years? When you’re in your 20’s and 30’s a three year age difference won’t even make you blink. It just seems important to you right now because of how young you are.

    Congrats on waiting until you’re 18 to have sex. A very refreshing attitude these days. Look at it this way: when you’re 18 he’ll be 21. No big deal about the age difference then,is there?

  8. aseret_me said :

    Run away. You said he’s nice but guys could be nice and even patient until they get what they want.

  9. Kristi said :

    MOST 17 year olds “worth their salt”, would be dating girls their age or older.

    If he shares the same feelings with you at 14, mature or not, would make me suspect that he just wants sex and he’s run out of partners so looking at younger girls.

    Anything beyond friendship would be illegal. Sex would be rape, so it’s more trouble than it’s worth.

    As yourself this…would you date an 11 year old? That’s how much difference of age there is between you and him. Seems pretty funky put that way, doesn’t it?

  10. iyamacog said :

    Bring him home, and introduce him to your mom and dad. See what they think……..♥♥

  11. Stephanie said :

    weell this is kind of tough because in reality it is only three years . . .if u were to date him in ten years saying ur 24 and he is 27 wouldnt sound bad at all. buuuutttt 17 yr old boys vary rarely can avoid the sexual aspect of a relationship. if he is a typical 17 yr old then he is growing into his sexuality and if u say no you wont fit into his agenda. however there r good 17 yr old boys out there? is he a church go-er? does he believe in waiting to have sex until marriage? what are his morals. alot of boys have morals to. if his match yours then i would say three years isnt that bad. id also get your parents advice. i know parents may seem to suck sometimes but they hav way more experience reading ppl and might be able to point out flaws u wouldnt notice. if they approve of him and believe he is a good boy. . . id say ur set!

  12. Yummy Mummy said :

    please wait.




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