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I don’t want my ex-boyfriend back but it would hurt to see him with someone else. What to do?

I broke up with him because I just felt like he didn’t want to be bothered. I wasn’t sure if I should have but idk. When I brought this up to him (when I was only on the verge of breaking up with him) he said he didnt mean to act that way and i know he had priorities that should always come before a girl. I honestly can understand where he is coming from because I would never put a boy first on my list unless he was dying or we were “in love” or something but at least I gave him some of my time.
After I broke up with him my friend called him and asked him all types of stuff about our break up. (I know it wasnt very mature of me to have her do that but I knew he would tell her.) So anyways this is how the converstaion went:
My friend: What happened with you and?
Him: She dumped me. (He said it quick and kind of with attitude)
My friend: Why?
-Idk. I didnt even bother to ask. I was tired.
-Oh do you think yall are gonna get back together this summer?
-Idk. Maybe. No. I dont have enough time for gf. I have (listed all of his activities and then was like…) Im plannin on messin around anyways.(Okay idk if he was saying this because he was angry or what but it tore me up!)
-What about when school starts again?
-yea. maybe. idk. How do u know I wont go into the year with a gf already?! (He was rude about it. 4real!)
(then she pops the question)
-Do you still like her?
(Okay i coulda swore he said no. But she claims he said yeah. I doubt it. and that was the end of the conversation)
First I was convinced that I didnt need him but after sitting back and taking a look back at everything that happened (no im not saying that i need him) I realize how childish I was. Plus I didnt even know him that well. Okay I know thats not the best way to start a relationship but we met in school like everyone else I’ve ever dated. I just didnt know him that well to expect so much out of him (like deep conversations about life, affection, and a whole lotta stuff that i wasnt gonna get right off the bat). But thats the thing for some strange, unknown reason I still like him. He told me the things he was going through at home and pretty much with his life and honestly I wanted to cry for him. It was so sad. And sometimes I sit and think maybe he was just going through alot and wasnt really worried about a gf..maybe it was just his hormones or something kickin in. Or maybe he just didnt trust me enough to open up to me, which is also understandable. I dont plan on goin back out with him or anything but i dont want him dating anyone…esp someone i know. Is that weird? Maybe it’s just because I feel like the guys that have tried to tlk to me are not of my interest u know? they dont fit me. But yeah could you please tell me somethin.

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6 Responses to “I don’t want my ex-boyfriend back but it would hurt to see him with someone else. What to do?”

  1. mafiaprincess said :

    it sounds to me that you are a needy person and you just want him cause you thought that his feelings were going to be hurt and when thye weren’t you got md I think that you shouldn’t have violated his personal space by listening to a phone conversation that he was having while not knowing he was listening. I think that you aren’t worthy of his attwention and i give him props for leaving you alone quite hurting him and leave him alone let him get someone who is going to act there age and treat him well

  2. G baby said :

    your selfish and want what you cant have. let him go, he deserves better. you just want to have him because you like the idea of a bf and no one flirts with you. grow up and dont toy with emotions of others. if you do get back together he will prolly tap it and leave, if you left him once, whats stopping you from you leaving again?

    thats my opinion

  3. Bobba F said :

    i’m going though the exact same thing!!!

  4. Lola B said :

    i know it hurts to see him with another girl but you know what..you just gotta be strong and deal with it. Ya know what happened to me? a week after me and my ex broke up i bump into him in town and out of the blue this girl comes running up and they start makin out it was sooo hard for me but i know that it’s time to let go i mean you broke up with him stop making things so complicated move on and let him mess around like he wants to. You can’t control what he wants to do ok? with time you will move on and realise that there is actually a special someone out there who will treat you like a princess and devote time to you ..gd luck with everything..

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