How do you get an ex boyfriend back that is confused about being single or being with a great girl?
Men love to be single (I get it, more flavors of ice cream) but if you are with a really great good girl, aren’t you afraid of losing her. And if you’re the girl, how do you let him know that?
September 30th, 2010 at 3:23 pm
It’s almost a lost cause. i felt that way about my ex and then he didn’t care. (now almost 2yrs later) he has been through 3 girls and is still unhappy. guys like girls but they do regret losing a great girl. they just don’t want to admit it.
September 30th, 2010 at 3:59 pm
I’m going through it too girl, best thing you can do it try to show him that you are ok without him. The thing that sucks is that you are better off without him and it is YOU that you have to convince of that, he knows it already, but he knows you love him and that’s why he’s not treating you right. Guys are selfish, so go out and have fun and try to get over him… You’ll be better off, and if its meant to be then he’ll come back begging, and if he doesn’t try hard enough to get back with you then he doesn’t really want it. Dont get too excited if he wants to hang out, just hang out, be yourself, and have a great time showing him what he is missing, and he’ll come around. At least that’s what I keep telling myself, and it seems to be working.. Keeping my fingers crossed for both of us:)
September 30th, 2010 at 4:38 pm
Hi Saek,
There is a definitive way to get an ex back. You have to make him realize that you are the “right” girl. It’s not a tricky matter, but you probably don’t know how to do this because your feelings are getting in the way.
So, to make a long story short, my first recommendation would be to stop letting him know just how much you want/love him and instead focus on bringing your qualities to his attention.
Let me know if you need further instructions and good luck!
Sam
Relationship Advisor
The Match Maker Review
http://www.thematchmakerreview.com/makingup.html
September 30th, 2010 at 5:16 pm
Whatever you do, don’t let him know by TELLING him. Just find a way to SHOW him.
This is quite important. If you just tell him that you want him back, he will have confirmation that he hasn’t quite “lost” you yet.
September 30th, 2010 at 5:27 pm
Your right men do love to be single….but only for a time. The lifestyle of “different flavors of Ice Cream” can get old after a while. If he is in this phase there isn’t much you can really do but let him grow out of it. If you push the issue you’ll just push him away because it will look like your being needy or desperate. If you really want him back then you need to move one with your life and let it get back to him that you’ve done so. If he knows your right there waiting for him then whats he got to worry about? Take the fact that your waiting for him out of the equation and see if he comes around.