How do I get my ex-girlfriend back after I pushed her away?
A little over three months ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. I made many mistakes when she first broke up with me. I tried convincing her to take me back, I acted all depressed, I contacted her and asked her to hang out, etc.
I haven’t tried to ask her to spend time with me for over a month now. What should I do at this point?
September 16th, 2010 at 5:34 pm
This is a common question for many males and females nobody wants to experience a breakup. Such an experience is painful and often brings about sadness, anger and disappointment. But do you know that according to relationship counselors and experts, 80% of all breakups are reversible. This means that there is a good chance that you can make up with your ex.
September 16th, 2010 at 6:12 pm
Now is the right time for you to send her a letter, it could be an email, and tell her that you admit your fault and that you are sorry. Take responsibility for your actions and tell her that you understand her reaction. Tell her that you still want her and that you are willing to make the necessary changes needed. Tell her that you are giving her time and space. You will not try to contact her so that she can use the time to see if there is still a chance that she’d take you back. Inform her that you are making positive changes in your life, so that one day, she will see that you are a changed man and you can be deserving of her love again.
After you have sent the letter, don’t try to contact her. Give her several days or weeks. Wait for her to contact you. After reading the letter, she will surely respond to you one way or another.
September 16th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
You made the mistake of contacting her too much and acting depressed. But don’t worry, it isn’t too late. Here is what you should start doing. Start seeing other girls and living your own life. Focus on improving aspects of your own life and working on things that you want to improve, and stop worrying about her for awhile.
You should also start thinking long and hard about what caused the split in the first place. Was it something that you could have controlled? If it was, then change it. The bottom line is stop acting like it bothers you so much.
Begging to talk to her and take you back is the worst thing you can do when you are trying to get your ex back.
I put a link to a blog that has a ton of advice on this kind of thing. I hope this helped.
September 16th, 2010 at 7:35 pm
Well I think you should inlease try to contact her try to make her realized how much you love her and make her realized you love her & want her in your life send her stuff such as flowers
or presents you know? make her feel as if she’s the only girl who matters to you ok?
Im sure she’ll come back if it was meant to be!
September 16th, 2010 at 8:25 pm
OH DEAR …you really are guaranteeing to NEVER get her back doing that friend…. push and pull…have you ever heard the saying “the more you hold on to something the more it struggles to break free”..?
LEAVE HER alone.
the more you push someone to do something the further they go.
walk away and do not call or text for at least 3 weeks .. and avoid her ..let her MISS you…let her know nothing about you at all..
try here for tips and advice
http://www.winbackanex.org
September 16th, 2010 at 9:24 pm
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March 28th, 2011 at 12:40 pm
I want to win back the love of my son’s mother but I find myself doing all the don’ts instead of the do’s, she has a text/phone relationship with a long distance guy & doesn’t want me to pressure her with talk or logic of us getting back together. I need help on how to win her back