How do i get my ex boyfriend back after i broke up with him? ?
About a year ago we broke up because i wanted to see what it was like to be single. I loved him so much 6 years together. I started dating somebody else for 1 year but talked to my ex the whole time. He tried getting back with me i wanted to but didnt. He move accross the state because i wouldnt take him back. Im single now and realize i love him more than ever. How do i get him to believe me that i really want to be with him?
October 11th, 2010 at 3:27 am
Well, you guys have quite a history! I have been there.. I was with a guy for 7 years, but we split, cuz he didn’t treat me so well and I dated a guy for a year and now just four months ago we split and I truly miss him and want him back! On the other hand, my ex of 7 years regrets everything he has done to me and desperately wants me back, but feelings are no longer there.. But I sympathize with your pain! My first instinct was for you to go to him, perhaps surprise him! Let him know where ever he may be, you will go! He is probably scared of you hurting him again, and is unsure of being back with you… Show him you will not so much go out of your way, but go through all costs to show you’re sorry and love him and want to be with him! You taking a leep of faith like that is really scary and you have to be strong in case of rejection, but how else would you know, and at the same time really go the extra mile for him. I am sure he was there for you through your relationship perhaps to console you through the good and bad times with your most recent ex… I don’t know but just throwin’ that out there, and if so then he went out of his comfort zone then for you too… Allow him to share his feelings with you and be understanding, and reassure him that over this period of time you have realized what a mistake you have made, and how much you love him and also all the past that you guys have shared!!!… Be strong, I know it’s hard and I hope he is still willing to at least consider the idea of being back together! Good luck for reals, I hope all goes well for you in your situation. If he doesn’t though want to get back together though at this time then let him go for a while. It sucks to hear and I Hate It, but if it’s meant to be, then it will be!! =)
October 11th, 2010 at 4:26 am
Well, this may take some time since he actually moved across state. My suggestion to you is to get back in touch; not to pursue but to test the waters. See what he is up too, but be a friend. Don’t act like you are trying to get him back. IF he isn’t seeing anyone else; he will get back with you; perhaps move back.
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http://www.getyourexloveback.com
October 11th, 2010 at 5:12 am
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hope it helps!!!
January 30th, 2011 at 11:53 pm
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