How can i get my best friend/girlfriend back.?
okay so ive known her since 3rd grade and im in 11th grade now and she was always my best friend and we kinda experimented if you know what i mean and then we kinda were “together” but now she has a “new best friend” cause we havent hung out in like a year but we’re still best friends but i feel like the new best friend is ruining what me and my bestfriend had. help please.. and dont say anything mean, im serious about this. i love her
October 19th, 2010 at 1:42 am
Just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and what you’ve been thinking. If that doesn’t work, try finding other friends to hang around and see if she eventually realizes she’s throwing away your friendship.
October 19th, 2010 at 2:24 am
talk bout it
October 19th, 2010 at 3:14 am
if you haven’t hung out in a year then I can’t really blame her…
what happened after you were ‘together’? if you just drifted then you really need to reconnect with her! Just because she has a new best friend doesn’t mean she’s over you it means shes tired of waiting for you. Go up and tell her how you feel (maybe not all the ‘i love you’ stuff until after you get close again, it might freak her out). Start hanging out again and it’ll hopefully all work out! good luck
October 19th, 2010 at 3:24 am
If you guys havent hung out in about a year then of course your gonna drift away from eachother. If you really want to reconnect with her just tell her and start trying get close as you were again. Try not to tell her you love her and stuff like that. its might get in the way of the friendship and cause that awkward situation. But let her know your feelings and try to get back that connection with eachother
October 19th, 2010 at 4:14 am
Ask your friend for some time to speak person to person. Look them in the eye when having a conversation and let her know how you feel about her now and in the past. Give her the opportunity to express her honest feeling and don’t take it personally if it doesn’t go the way you want. People change and life changes. She may not have those same feeling she once had in the younger years.
If this is the case bow out gracefully. If it’s meant to be maybe it will come back around, but continue with your life. There are many fish in the sea.