Has anyone gotten their interests back, such as interest in a girlfriend, back after losing it to depression?
I feel like crap, One day I was completely in love with my girlfriend.
Then i got sick with depression probably due to my mom, shes had depression. Its just hard. Ive lost motivation to do just about everything.Will it ever give in?
Will I ever get my interests back?
Please help!
Answers are greatly appreciated!
Thank you and God Bless!
September 20th, 2010 at 6:13 pm
I suffered from anxiety and depression for a few years. I finally sought help. I don’t need the meds for depression anymore. Every few years I’ll have a bout with it, and will go back on the meds, but as I’ve gotten older it’s happened less and less. I still have anxiety problems from time to time.
You will get your interests back. It takes time, and it doesn’t happen right away. You may even develop new interests, and start to have good days again. Studies have shown that depression is hereditary, and it’s good that you recognize your mom’s illness.
You will need to seek treatment if you haven’t already.
A word about relationships: usually the first thing to go to down the drain where depression is concerned, and if the other person thinks of mental illness as a weakness and not a disease, you probably don’t need to be around them (I speak from experience on that). Seek support and medical attention right now if you haven’t already. Better days will come. Godspeed.
September 20th, 2010 at 6:49 pm
Dear Breven P…
🙂 with a heart full of hope, respect and love i say my friend :
depression is a disease like any other simple diseases.. u dont have to be upset that much when u feel it dear 🙂
the most important thing to do dear is to tell ur girlfriend when u r depressed.. it’s her right to know so she doesnt miss understand you!
she must accept it and help u to overcome this..
i know dear friend you may say that u can do nothing when ur depressed!
no dear plz u have to tell her .. just give her the chance to be the one that stands by u!! (u can start by showing her my answer!)
Another IMPORTANT thing is the TREATMENT of depression…
from deep deep inside my heart i tell u my friend i passed depression!!!
i dont say im recovered 100%, but i can say that everything is under control and it doesnt last for a long time as it used to be!!
the treatment is:
first u must know i tried to go to a psychiatric and i believe it’s a good treatment BUT the treatment i found it abnormally PERFECT is..
to fill ur sole and ur heart!! bcoz depression comes from a sad sole and damaged feelings that result from a tired heart 🙁
you’ll ask how to fill’em?!
i’ll say no one can fill’em but the one who create’em!!
truly when i heard someone says that a person can fill his body with food and drink but the sole is always hard to be filled unless u ask god to help u!
ALL WHAT U MUST DO is to search for the best religion that u feel it suits u and that is convincing!! (away from ads on T.V or internet.. just ask the ppl that knows in each religion) dont forget to ask God to guide u.. personally i changed my religions but i wont tell u what is the religion i picked .. i’ll just let u search and im sure u’ll find it.. and when u do.. BYE BYE DEPRESSION! believe me!!!!
u may say it’s ballsh!t.. but i really am sure it’ll work perfectly!
i think i talk toooooooooooo much .. looooool 😛
from all my heart i wish u happiness each second of ur life 🙂