What is important during a marriage for men and women ?
Generally speaking, what do you think are the priorities of each gender ?
With or without children ?
Thank you !
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March 22nd, 2011 at 7:06 am
Communication, the ability to compromise, mutual respect and honesty.
March 22nd, 2011 at 7:37 am
Important things during a marriage.
Is respect for each other, without it it’s extremely hard for a marriage to last. Also this day in time when divorce rates are at there highest it’s important to know and understand the truly meaning of devotion.
March 22nd, 2011 at 8:18 am
Trust
Communication
Honesty
Faithfulness
Fun in the Bedroom
March 22nd, 2011 at 8:40 am
Honesty
Communication
Laughing
Great Sex
March 22nd, 2011 at 8:52 am
i agree with everything the first one said. love and respect for each other.
good luck
March 22nd, 2011 at 9:16 am
So far, you have great answers and although these are important things to live by during a relationship, we hardly ever remember them. I don’t know, but in my personal case, everything changed after we had our daughter. We had goals, we both wanted the same things and suddenly, we’ve changed. We’ve become these strangers and we hardly “share” anymore. The only priority in common, is our loved daughter who is 10 years old, and the sharpest tool in the drawer, trust me ! We agree (my hubby and me) to anything that has to do with her education but other than that, we both work, but we “live” together, nothing else. We don’t make each other laugh anymore and it’s very sad. I’ve tried to explain to him that we are growing apart as a couple and that we might need counseling, meanwhile, to him, everything within the marriage is working great. I really don’t know, where and when, we have stopped being “in love” altogether.
March 22nd, 2011 at 9:43 am
Good listener
supportive
respect
passionate
comprehensive
sharing
March 22nd, 2011 at 10:28 am
Gentleness – not being meek or timid, just gentle
Companionability, not just company – do you work as a team or just like two roomates living together?
Fun – if you can’t make each other laugh at home, it doesn’t matter how many places you go out to or things you do – the car ride home will still be boring. (check out PunishMySpouse.com) You have to just simply enjoy each other.
Priorities for each gender? No, forget that, and I’m not saying that because it’s the modern thing. People are people, period – treat each other like people, focus on the other’s being human, and forget about what they’re “supposed to” want, like, or need.
March 22nd, 2011 at 11:20 am
what do i think the priorities are for each gender in a marriage?
well… I think the priority for women in a marriage is a husband that can provide for them, meaning provide them with love, with understanding and with leadership to lead them and a potential family. Things such as buying a house, maintiaing finances and being an overall leader (not controller) but a leader for his wife and children (if any)
For men, I think the priority is that they have a loving wife, a wife that also provides but provides in a different way, men want a wife that provides them with support, with care, with nurture. Things such as providing a man with the support for him to work, to make the right decisions and support him with his endeavors in life. A woman can also provide the nurturing and caring love that men need (such as from mama), good food, clean house, and a shoulder to rest his head on.
March 22nd, 2011 at 12:10 pm
trust, communication, and good sex
March 22nd, 2011 at 12:21 pm
TRUST! If you don’t have trust, you don’t have NOTHING!
AND of course, communication is key!
March 22nd, 2011 at 12:41 pm
a lover
March 22nd, 2011 at 12:56 pm
First priority for both, after fidelity of course, is compromise.
They say opposites attract, but even those who share many interests have to learn the fine art of compromising.
Teamwork, understanding and empathy tie in with that.
Do to your spouse as you would have done unto you…
So sayeth the Ninja…so sayeth the flock.
March 22nd, 2011 at 1:10 pm
Seriously I really don’t know any more.
Hilariously I’ll leave a link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwqPZvrJPV0&feature=channel_page