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What is important during a marriage for men and women ?

Generally speaking, what do you think are the priorities of each gender ?
With or without children ?

Thank you !

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14 Responses to “What is important during a marriage for men and women ?”

  1. Glo★ said :

    Communication, the ability to compromise, mutual respect and honesty.

  2. SwEEtie PiE said :

    Important things during a marriage.
    Is respect for each other, without it it’s extremely hard for a marriage to last. Also this day in time when divorce rates are at there highest it’s important to know and understand the truly meaning of devotion.

  3. D'Artagnan Pluck said :

    Trust
    Communication
    Honesty
    Faithfulness
    Fun in the Bedroom

  4. eqaddix said :

    Honesty
    Communication
    Laughing
    Great Sex

  5. happy 1 said :

    i agree with everything the first one said. love and respect for each other.

    good luck

  6. I have an answer ! said :

    So far, you have great answers and although these are important things to live by during a relationship, we hardly ever remember them. I don’t know, but in my personal case, everything changed after we had our daughter. We had goals, we both wanted the same things and suddenly, we’ve changed. We’ve become these strangers and we hardly “share” anymore. The only priority in common, is our loved daughter who is 10 years old, and the sharpest tool in the drawer, trust me ! We agree (my hubby and me) to anything that has to do with her education but other than that, we both work, but we “live” together, nothing else. We don’t make each other laugh anymore and it’s very sad. I’ve tried to explain to him that we are growing apart as a couple and that we might need counseling, meanwhile, to him, everything within the marriage is working great. I really don’t know, where and when, we have stopped being “in love” altogether.

  7. lulu said :

    Good listener
    supportive
    respect
    passionate
    comprehensive
    sharing

  8. Gigi said :

    Gentleness – not being meek or timid, just gentle
    Companionability, not just company – do you work as a team or just like two roomates living together?
    Fun – if you can’t make each other laugh at home, it doesn’t matter how many places you go out to or things you do – the car ride home will still be boring. (check out PunishMySpouse.com) You have to just simply enjoy each other.
    Priorities for each gender? No, forget that, and I’m not saying that because it’s the modern thing. People are people, period – treat each other like people, focus on the other’s being human, and forget about what they’re “supposed to” want, like, or need.

  9. redhead27 said :

    what do i think the priorities are for each gender in a marriage?

    well… I think the priority for women in a marriage is a husband that can provide for them, meaning provide them with love, with understanding and with leadership to lead them and a potential family. Things such as buying a house, maintiaing finances and being an overall leader (not controller) but a leader for his wife and children (if any)

    For men, I think the priority is that they have a loving wife, a wife that also provides but provides in a different way, men want a wife that provides them with support, with care, with nurture. Things such as providing a man with the support for him to work, to make the right decisions and support him with his endeavors in life. A woman can also provide the nurturing and caring love that men need (such as from mama), good food, clean house, and a shoulder to rest his head on.

  10. Eagle said :

    trust, communication, and good sex

  11. Harley Mama said :

    TRUST! If you don’t have trust, you don’t have NOTHING!

    AND of course, communication is key!

  12. johnny trash said :

    a lover

  13. O'Gasmic Ninja said :

    First priority for both, after fidelity of course, is compromise.
    They say opposites attract, but even those who share many interests have to learn the fine art of compromising.
    Teamwork, understanding and empathy tie in with that.
    Do to your spouse as you would have done unto you…
    So sayeth the Ninja…so sayeth the flock.

  14. Regwah said :

    Seriously I really don’t know any more.
    Hilariously I’ll leave a link.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwqPZvrJPV0&feature=channel_page




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