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valentines idea………??? what do you think?

3 months together………..im not a fan of jewellery as a gift as its just a piece of metal thats shinny, i know it has sentimental value to the person you give it to, but its so personal and also relates to fashion etc and i know us guys get it wrong all the time!

i was thinking apart from the romantic dinner, flowers, chocolates etc on valentines itself……………..i was thinking of getting her a day spa package for the weekend after it were she gets like 6 hours of full body massages, facials eetc ec, make her feel really sexy you know? give her the gift certificate at dinner. (its $500 aus, i know i could just by jewellery but i dunno its just not me, this is more something special for her)

then once thats done ill pick her up and take her to this secret romantic spot we hung out together and talked all the time and have a sunset picnic set up?

ladies? jewellery? or the other ideas, i guess jewellery is a reminder of me daily but memories mean more?
She does not wear much jewellery, definately no rings, does not want one till its “the” ring, i agree on that and like that idea, makes it special.

She has mentioned about day spa stuff previously and i give her massages at home with candels etc as it is so wanted to step it up. There is a couples package but i want to do it for her and give her her time to relax, thats my gift, not the cost of the thing.

The spot is by the river were we went and hung out one evening and just talked and talked etc and watched sun set so after i pick her up from day spa just wanted to get a blanket and a bottle of wine etc you know what i mean?

thanks for all your advice, i dont care if its been 3 months or 3 decades, im doing it because i think she deserves to be happy. thanks everyone!
yes i want to have something sentimental to remember the day by to give, small but meaningful. to reminise about it, like something that only we get.

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22 Responses to “valentines idea………??? what do you think?”

  1. RabidRaccoon said :

    Diamonds are forever….you’ll be paying forever………

  2. Tammy said :

    Your idea for Valentines day is really and truly adorable. More on the rare and thoughtful side.

  3. Andra J said :

    how could you be in doubt – this is a BEAUTIFUL gift – do you have a brother???

  4. mandy b said :

    LOVE the idea, what a wonderful valientines in my thought, and it would serve as a life long memory, better than jewelry to me, I say that Idea is a WINNER

  5. windsor1 said :

    I would absoutly LOVE a present like that.

  6. adolphinspirit said :

    Too soon for jewelry. And if you do get her some and she accepts it, hmmmmm. She’ll adore you for the spa package. It’s extremely thoughtful, something men aren’t famous for. Thinking.

    You GO, boy!!

  7. AM_FUNNY said :

    This is time for Media, card manufactures to earn from youngsters..purely wastage of time and resources.

  8. coolperson9450 said :

    I would like either one, but I think the spa idea is good toshow that you want to make sure she feels good… Depends on the girl really.

  9. Deanna said :

    great ideas. the fact that you thought through all this will mean a lot to her. If you can afford it you might top off the evening with a less expensive piece. Like $99 diamond solitare earrings, then she will think of the day everytime she puts them on.

  10. A♥a said :

    As long as you are together, thats all that matters. She obviously loves you, so the fancy gifts wont matter as much, but a spa package sounds GREAT. If you are tight on money, a fancy dinner and indie movie in a downtown theatre would be awesome. Just show affection (and a little effort)
    A♥a

  11. toobingaddict said :

    I think you made this valentines gift very personal + just for her. Its a great idea !!! Especially since you made other plans with her for after. Sometimes jewellry is nice, why not top the night off with flowers too ?

  12. candleinthewind7579 said :

    Not everyone likes going to a spa and being exposed and rubbed by strangers…I would prefer the dinner and a rose

  13. Andrew N said :

    Three months or three years? If you’re willing to drop that much after such a short time you’re setting the bar pretty high. Better be ready to maintain it. But if shes worth it, have fun.

  14. Misty M said :

    Massage? Could you get me one to? Please… Actually my husband done that for me a couple of years ago and I loved it.. Do the full body massage.

  15. ~Danthropomorphite♥愛♥~ said :

    Dont know…You tell me

  16. Bankey said :

    i like your idea its pretty unique and i bet it will make her really happy though you might think that will be the perfect present for her b-day lol but the romantic spot will make it better so yeah go for it =]]

  17. She said :

    You should get save momentos and make something (for example, you could save a few wine quarks if you drink and make a frame out of them, each quark labeled for the time you drank that wine together, or save a bottle cap of a really special date you’re gonna have an make a necklace)

  18. *WEBKINZ* said :

    I think your idea is great, but is she the type of person for it?

  19. avnol22 said :

    to be honest 3 months isnt that long and its nice looking bak on it having got something sentimental.My boyfriend got me a very nice delicate white gold braclet and a pic of us in a frame.I think something sentimental means more use the spa presents for a birthday or aniversary.Or even why not have a day of fun???do silly things and have a laugh maybe float around shops if she sees something she likes get her it

  20. KJ01 said :

    I like it!!! Women are emotional and your creativity will impress her and have a much more lasting memory versus material items. Besides you have a blend of both which is always good. I do think you should get her something to remember the day. Something that is unique to both of you. For example on my husband and my first date I had a heart with a key hole and a dangaling key. It broke so ever since then we always have heart-locks and keys during our very special day. I gave him a heart and lock key chain for our anniversary. I keep the heart and he kept the key. We had it engraved. Good luck!!!

  21. Garrett said :

    good idea, i might use some of these hints

  22. jisasb said :

    i always hate the commercials at Christmas and Valentines day that say all women love jewelry and its a perfect gift. I for one would much rather have a gift that involved some thought like the one you are talking about.

    I always say id rather a guy bake me cookies and pick me Daisy’s than if he bought me chocolates and roses because he put thought time and effort into the gift instead of just picking up the phone.




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