Possible to get ex gf back after a year?
Is it possible to get your ex girlfriend back after it’s been about a little over a year? We lived together for a while & broke up because things were getting out of hand, but it wasn’t too bad. Haven’t spoken to her til recently.. now we’re just friends.. but I was wondering if you guys think it’s possible to spark up old flames?
October 17th, 2010 at 10:10 am
yes i do
people can grow so much in a year
sometimes a break makes you realize what you have lost
October 17th, 2010 at 10:21 am
Its possible, but you really need to ask yourself a few question before you decide you should.
What are the reasons you broke up? What mistakes did you make? What mistakes did he/she make? Have you learned anything from the mistakes you may have made, and have you done anything to change the things about yourself that caused you to make those mistakes? Are you really interested in making this person a part of the life you have NOW? Or are you simply more interested in trying to GO BACK to a time in your life that you miss?
Those are only some of the things to consider. Good luck to ya.
October 17th, 2010 at 11:12 am
With effort from both sides, it is very possible. Make sure you’re not the only one who wants to try because then it won’t work.
Don’t forget to ask yourself why you two broke up, and basically the problems that occurred when you were together. Also, wonder why things got out of hand and why the spark was gone!
Good luck 🙂
October 17th, 2010 at 12:02 pm
If you both are single and the relationship wasn’t violent, I say why not? You both know each other and as long as you two are single, give it a try! even though this is marriage and divorce section I know many singles want mature and experienced advice. Ask her if she would like to go have dinner and take it from there. PS bring some flowers!
October 17th, 2010 at 12:13 pm
Hi buddy
Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
all the best
October 17th, 2010 at 1:07 pm
Yes it’s possible! I went through a similar situation not too long ago. I discuss what helped me out on my blog. Stop by sometime. Good Luck
http://getexbackedge.blogspot.com/
March 4th, 2011 at 5:03 pm
well i dnt think so cuz ppl change after a year their feelings change and so do their type. My ex-bf completely changed and he got a new girl anyway. just move on gurl you need to start seeing other ppl after a year