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My Ex-Girlfriend wants to hang out with me when she is having problems with her boyfriend. I Still Love her?

We dated 2 yrs and we talked about getting married & having kids in a few years. Well around November 1st she broke up with me bc she said she just wanted to be single for a while. Well in Jan. she started dated some guy and he aint nothing but a pot head. Everytime they fight she calls me and wants to hang out. Everytime they fight she comes to my house and we end up having Sex.. She says that he dont never want to do anything she wants to do. All he wants to do is what he wants to do when he wants to do it. Plus all he ever wants to do most of the time is sit on his ass and smoke weed. Nobody in her family likes him. I mean one day she says shes gonna break up with and the next day she says well he wasnt that bad today. We didnt fight. She come to my house Valentines Night because they got into a fight about something I cant remember but anyways all he got her for V-day was one rose you buy from a Seven 11 or something it cost $1.59… I Love Her with all my heart and I miss her more and more each passing day. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. We spent Valentines night together. Sunday Night together, She stayed with me Monday night and we just laid in the bed and cuddled until about 12. She tells me she Loves me and misses me. I said No you dont and she said ” Im here aint I” and Im probally about to join the Marines. She dont want me to but she knows thats what I really want to do and she supports me. She was saying stuff like… Im gonna be one of those wives whos husband is in Iraq and that everytime the phone rings or a knock on the door the first thought that crosses her mind is that I was killed in Combat.. She said she wanted me to join the marines so I will have plenty of stories to tell our kids and G-kids. Like stories about War and the places ive been to while in the Marines… Just talking about us getting married and our kids… I might be moving about 100 miles away for work and she really doesnt want me to move bc its so far away… Ive told her how I felt but she worrys to much about hurting someone. She doesnt want to hurt her new bf by breaking up with him and she doesnt want to hurt me by not being with me. I told her that she needs to worry about what makes her happy and stop worring bout everyone else… I asked her if she was happy with him and she said No bc he dont never take her anywhere.. They have never been out to eat to a nice resturant.. The only place he will take her is like burger king or some other fast food joint… I Love this girl more than anything and I Want to spend the rest of my life with her… Anybody Got any Ideas on what I should do?? I dont want her to stop coming to me everytime they have problems bc this past week and a half we have spent alot of time together and if I tell her not to come to be everytime they have a fight then she will probally get mad and think that I dont Love her bc im not here for her when she needs me.. Im really confused bc I dont know what to do or say to her to convince her to come back to me….What is the best thing to do to make her want me back???

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12 Responses to “My Ex-Girlfriend wants to hang out with me when she is having problems with her boyfriend. I Still Love her?”

  1. airon89 said:

    Don’t do it. Some women love to play games. Stay away for your own good.

  2. g-ma said:

    be financially successful- she,ll come running back.

  3. Eerie said:

    Your present g/f wants to do the same with her ex who is your ex’s boyfriend so learn.

  4. wombat said:

    dont go there

  5. James C said:

    tbh she sounds like she loves both of u. ure a real nice guy, a modal husband, but because you are going to the marines she might be scared of being in a relationship with you incase you go and die or somthing.

    also theres 1 thing all women love, and thats a bad boy. the ‘pot head’ is probly her bad boy.

    i suggest you tell her your feelings and ask her real reason she isnt with you, and if she cant say ask her to write a letter.

    good luck with her, hope she marries you 😉

  6. whisper said:

    HI STEWIE,,,,HONEY,,U NEED TO SET HER DOWN,,AND TELL HER,,YOUR LIFE CANT GO ON LIKE THIS,,TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL,,,WHICH I THINK SHE KNOWS,,,BUT ,,SHE NEEDS TO CHOOSE U OR THE POT HEAD,,,TELL HER,,YOUR GOING TO START DATING OTHER GIRLS,,,HONEY,,,JUST MAYB SHE WILL WISE UP,,AND TELL YOU SHE WANTS YOU,,,BUT IF SHE STAYS WITH THIS GUIY,,U REALLY NEED TO TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM HER,,WEN SHE CALLS CRYING U TELL HER,,,ITS NOW OR NEVER,,DONT LET HER KEEP PLAYING GAMES WITH YOUR HEAD,,YOUR THE ONE WHO WILL END UP ALONE N HURT,,,,PEACE

  7. Ask Answer Discover said:

    Eh – Now that she needs you
    Show her you dont need her – let her see how it feels to be left
    If she found someone else – shell stay with him and just keep coming back to you when shes bored

  8. cami said:

    Ooh tough one. Well here is what you do:
    You tell her you love her and how much you want her and all the good things you mentioned here. Let her hear it! Then ask her if she would ever want to marry you or spend the rest of her life with you, even if you are going to the marines. Then tell her again how much you love her, miss her, want her, ect. And show her somehow that you will give her everything that the other bum didnt. Take her out to eat at a nice place, surprise her with a random dozen of roses, ect. Show her you mean it when you say you love her and make sure she knows! Also, tell her she needs to break up with her bf before he gets abusive. Becuase one day he might be drunk or high or something and start hitting her. Good Luck!

  9. 808 Baby said:

    damn you can write. It is a very sweet story but she is just getting the best of both worlds. if she is unable to commit to either one of you then the best thing is not to commit at all. when she runs to you when she gets into those little fights, it is not helping at all. She is giving you false hopes and in the long run it will hurt you more if you take it to heart. I do hope she finds the decency to tell you how it is and not otherwise. Other then that you should continue on your path and not let her sway the choice you make as in she can not make her own decisions. I wish you the best and pray that she turns out to be the one if thats what it was meant to be. With a heart like yours you deserve it. Not some sob story.

  10. John E said:

    1 if your going to join an armed service, join the Army instead of the Marines. You’ll get paid better and get more out of it, take that advise from a Marine.
    #2 Most girls like bad boys, they don’t like mamby pamby type of guys. That’s why she likes the pot head and wants to see you go in the Marines. Trust me on this!
    Use your imagination.

  11. kurcou53 said:

    wow that was long. Honestly, I feel for you soo much. but here’s the deal… the girl doesn’t love you as much as you think. I’m sooo sorry to say that. To her, you’ re just her “pick- me up.” Somebody that when she doesn’t get what she wants, she knows she can get it from you.

    If she loved you, she wouldn’t question breaking up with the other guy. If she loved you, it’d be her only option esp. because it’s very clear that you love her.

    Honestly, she’s probably a little turned on that you’re joining the marines, but after you leave and she doesnt see you.. it’ll fade soo fast.

    My advice: option 1. stop having sex with her, because in the end, she’s only going to hurt you. Instead of being there for her sexually just talk it out. option 2. milk it for all it’s worth… if it’s great sex, go for it. But dont let yourself get in too deep, because it can hurt soo bad. option 3. postpone it. Tell her that with you going away, you don’t want to make any commitments, because you don’t want her to miss out and you don’t want to miss out yourself while you’re away. See how it goes and if when you come back the spark is still there for both of you then you’ll know.

  12. Alex Brown said:

    Leave her before she leaves you, move on you can find better one. Nothing is impossible believe me you can do it.




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