(I’m a lesbian) how do I get my ex girlfriend back?
I had a girlfriend for quite sometime and we were in love bit then we broke up and she got with another guy. I was heartbroken but no she’s available and I really want her back.
How should I convince or just get her to be mine again?
I still love get also..
October 23rd, 2010 at 5:40 pm
Just call her and let her know how you feel
October 23rd, 2010 at 6:00 pm
just because she had a boyfriend does not mean you 2 can’t get together, he might even insist on it
October 23rd, 2010 at 6:15 pm
u shouldnt have to convince someone to be your girlfriend. the yshould WANT to be your girlfriend as much as you want it, or MORE.
as long as she knows how u feel , because you had open communication, then u should just go 100% no contact.
absence makes the heart grow fonder
October 23rd, 2010 at 6:15 pm
she has a boyfriend what makes you think she wants you back. its obvious that she moved on why cant you. dont hold on to people if they arent holding on to you. she is with someone so its best for you to back off and find someone else. there are other fish in the sea.
October 23rd, 2010 at 7:12 pm
try threesome
kinda great!!
October 23rd, 2010 at 7:29 pm
Winning back your ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex back:
Don’t Ask To Get Back Together
You should never ask to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting them back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with them, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in them, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with them.
Remember don’t be jealous and be flexible.
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October 23rd, 2010 at 8:24 pm
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Relationships break down all the time and breakups are not uncommon. At some point in your life the chances are you will be involved in a breakup. If you have reached the point of breakup already you will be very familiar with the heartache involved and the emotional challenges you will face. The truth is, at some point this happens to even the very best of us and it can happen for a number of different reasons. You will have an idea hopefully about why that is but all is not lost if you truly do want your ex back!
The emotions that hold the ties of the relationship are often very similar and there are things you can do to help your situation. Firstly do not get all needy and call your ex all the time. This is not the way to go and is often a mistake that many make. Instead you need to be calm about the whole situation and think rationally. Remember why your now ex actually fell for you. Try to remember what things were like in the beginning and what you both did to nurture that relationship at the very start. What has changed since then? Have you since lacked things from the relationship you once did often that your partner loved you for, for example?
There are also other little bits and pieces you need to do. If you have become part of your partners family circle – keep in touch! Send cards on birthdays and call to see how they are. If you are very close make visits. Always make the effort to look nice. Dress yourself in a way that benefits your appearance as you may never know when you could bump into your partner again and a fresh pair of eyes on you at your best could get the thought coming back that were there right at the beginning of the relationship. It also helps boost your own confidence when you feel good about the way you look and that will radiate from you also making the desire even greater.
October 23rd, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Hi there,
I know how you feel.
There are many ways to get your ex back but none of them are easy. It takes a lot effort and emotional strength in order to talk with your former lover. Talking could just be a simple activity but when you’re talking about emotions, everything changes that every word could be too heavy to be spoken.
If you’re willing to reunite with your former flame, it’s always imperative to think about the reason (or reasons) why the breakup happened. Repairing a relationship is more than just getting back together like nothing has happened. By recognizing the reason why the breakup happened, future heartbreaks could be prevented. Be sure to be as specific as possible so that specific actions could be created to prevent this type emotional pain to happen.
After recognizing the reason why the breakup happened, it’s time to deal with the status of your relationship logically. Instead of using emotions to address the problems of your relationship, use reason in order to have a clear understanding of your relationship. This will also prevent emotionally-charged exchange of ideas. Talking emotionally will only lead to further conflict since you and your ex are already in bad terms with each other.
In the midst of the process of reuniting with your ex, it is important to stay strong. Never show that you are having a hard time coping up with the loss. Although you can say that it’s never the same, losing your ex should not be reason that you become distressed especially physically.
In your effort to get your ex back, it is important to acknowledge the reason of the breakup and dealing with those reasons logically. Although a relationship is a topic of emotions, it is important that you treat it with reason to gain a clear concept about your relationship.
I hope this helps!
March 4th, 2011 at 5:14 pm
umm…i ain’t no lesbian so idk jst turn her on lmfao