I need help , there is a guy told me that he loves me and i do not feel anything about him and the problem is?
he is my best friend cousin and he thinks about me for years and he was afraid that Iam going to say no , he has heart disease and i do not want to hurt him and i do not how my friend will feel if i say no i do not want to lose her Iam really upset .. tell me what to do ????
January 30th, 2011 at 6:24 am
lol heart disease
WELL NOW HE DOES have heart diseasse
January 30th, 2011 at 7:10 am
tell him ur not sure ur doin the ryt thing..tell him u dont want to lose ur friendship
January 30th, 2011 at 7:36 am
Well you can always say you don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment [and for some reasons, if you have a reason]
EDIT
otherwise, just tell him that it’s really sweet of him and you do like him but you just don’t feel the same way.
Tell your best friend that you don’t want to loose her friendship because of this and I’m sure she will understand.
Best Wishes
JD
January 30th, 2011 at 8:18 am
Say that you’re flattered but you don’t feel the same
January 30th, 2011 at 8:41 am
the best thing to do is just say how you feel yes the truth hurts but its better than to live a lie. what if you do say you love him back then what? he’ll want a relationship that im sure you dont want to be in. and if your bestfriend is really your friend she would understand you and she would not get upset
January 30th, 2011 at 9:03 am
Be honest tell him u dnt feel lyk that 4 him but u can always tlk to him n be his friend and who knows maybe one day you’ll feelfor him like he feels for you.
January 30th, 2011 at 9:15 am
tell him you love him to but as a friend or to a limit
January 30th, 2011 at 9:46 am
talk to your friend about it, she might understand.