How can i get my girlfriend back that i still am in very much love with, when she just she wants to be friends?
My girlfriend of 2 years said she feels stressed and doesnt feel as close and wants to be friends. I asked her would she ever get over these feelings, and she said she dont know right now. What should i do? I still am in love with her and dont want to move on.
October 4th, 2010 at 6:10 pm
Your best shot is to do what she suggested: be a friend to her. If you keep trying to push her into being in a relationship, it’ll get annoying. Just keep in mind that she really may not want to get back together. Keep your options open. She may start seeing qualities in you that she never noticed before. Good luck.
October 4th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
you cant get her back its over! just move on and find a re bounder for now.
she is pretty much telling you its over in a nice way.
go out and start talking to single woman. kicking back in your room crying your eyes out will not help!
go out and try to have some fun even if it don’t feel right.
October 4th, 2010 at 7:09 pm
show her that u still care. take her out and have fun. help her relieve stress and show her that u still love her and that you car for her
October 4th, 2010 at 7:13 pm
You need to build back attraction and learn how to keep her happy.
Keeping a woman happy is vital for a healthy relationship. Here are several tips to keep a girl happy – pay attention and reap the rewards.
Keep her happy rule #1 – Always be yourself; don’t supplicate. There are guys out there who think they aren’t good enough to attract a jaw-dropping beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on an act. A confident man doesn’t act like this. As I write this article, I’m in Argentina, where there are plenty of amazing girls holding onto the arm of an out of shape dude with a mullet haircut. It just goes to show that women are more attracted to confidence and personality than looks.
Keep her happy rule #2 – Notice the little things. Women are all about the details. Does she have a favorite candy, a favorite flower, color, etc.? Get creative, surprise her with little momentos, she’ll appreciate these things. I’ve met guys who try to impress girls with big gifts, but the reality is the women appreciate the smaller gifts a lot more in general.
Keep her happy rule #3 – This one is pretty simple: Appreciate her. Never take your woman for granted, let her know from time to time why you value her, what you find so irresistable about her.
Next up is not obviously looking at other women when you are with her. Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at. They don’t understand the whole concept of “the day I stop looking is the day I die.” This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women. Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children. They can’t help it. That’s how evolution designed them. So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around.
Keep her happy rule #4 – The next rule is to be careful with her jealousy triggers. Basically this means – don’t obviously ogle over other girls. Girls don’t like to feel insecure, and they don’t understand that men are visual beings who check out other women. Women are biologically engineered to seek a lifetime protector, so realize that checking out other women in front of your partner may make things testy between you two.
Keep her happy rule #5 – Keep her smiling and laughing. Men love good looks – but as I said earlier, women love a personality, including his sense of humor. A healthy relationship involves lots of laughs and some inside jokes.
Keep her happy rule #6 – Find common interests and activities, and keep things fresh in the relationship. Take an interest in her hobbies and interests, and introduce her to some of yours. Constantly learn and explore with each other, it keeps you both young, and keeps the relationship healthy.
Keep her happy rule #7 – Stay interesting. I know from experience that once you have the girl, you might become lazy in a lot of different respects. This will eventually kill the attraction, and the relationship. Keep yourself fresh, groom yourself, buy a new t-shirt once in a blue moon. Don’t get sloppy or you could lose her.
Keep her happy rule #8 – Entertain her friends. If you win over a woman’s friends and/or family, you gain major points. She can now trust you even more, and this only increases your value. I wouldn’t try to become best friends with any of her friends, but keep things light, funny, and entertaining. This always works in your favor.
Keep her happy rule #9 – Be considerate of her feelings. Women are more emotional beings than men. Women want to feel understood. Give her some support and she will appreciate you for it. Don’t fight her bad moods.
Keep her happy rule #10 – Always be open to try new things. When you start dating a girl, things are new and exciting. After a while, the two of you may find yourself in predictable routine. The more you shake things up, the more you will enjoy each other and learn about each other. This keeps the relationship healthy and growing.
There you have it, ten easy-enough rules to follow if you are serious about keeping your relationships strong. If you don’t pay attention to these rules, you’ll find out the hard way about the reality of a stale, fearful relationship… they don’t last.
April 20th, 2011 at 9:34 am
hi my girlfriend is under a lot of stress because her nan got rushed into hospital and her cat has just died and she said its over but wants to be mates i care about her and love her more than i love my own life and i have told her that too . how can i win her back i was with her 2 and half years any ideas how i can sweep her off her feet please