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How can I acquire the skill of starting a conversation with anyone and making it last a long time?

Like it says on the question, how can I be able to start a conversation with anyone and keep it up so both of us are interested?

I want to because it’ll help get a girlfriend, since I am shy, and get some more friends and I can seem more fun.

Please any tips, suggestions and comments are welcome and appreciated.

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8 Responses to “How can I acquire the skill of starting a conversation with anyone and making it last a long time?”

  1. i'mbeingseriuos said:

    starting conversations sucks. that’s just about being nice and hoping that someone is open minded.
    however, if you do get in, ask questions. people love talking about themselves. it all takes practice.

  2. noki said:

    dude i got the same problem. ha ha lol not much of an answer eh? well ill be checking this a lot

  3. Natalia786 said:

    Once you have found someone you are comfortable with (which takes some time to know) the convos will flow naturally. be patient and just try to get to know the person. Find out what they like to do in their free time, their interests, hobbys, dreams and find out what you have in common with them. just be a friend to them and eventually it will get easier. good luck.

  4. Just trying to help said:

    Steer the conversation in the direction of topics you are knowledgeable about, so you have something to say (but don’t bore her with any one topic).
    Pay attention to what she says, and if she seems enthusiastic about something give her a chance to talk about it by asking questions.

  5. Bennie and the Jets said:

    Heres a good tip, when you ignite a convo, you have to keep it going by braching out to different things, like to stories of your life or to a question. Like for example if it goes:
    1: See? The food in that new place is awesome!
    You: Yea i know
    *awkward silence*
    You: I once went to this place where they sold snails as food, isnt that weird?


  6. Team Seth Forever said:

    Comment on something she cares about.
    If you say,
    “Oh, nice shoes.”
    She’ll have some long intricate story about how she went on some mile long trek through K-Mart to get those shoes.
    You won’t have to say much, just nod at the right places.
    She’ll be glad you seem to care, and if she’s polite, she’ll swing the conversation around to you.

  7. lani2blue said:

    Oh boy. Well, in answer to your question, see this site:

    However, this is more than about conversation. Not having something to talk about doesn’t seem to be your problem…as you said, shyness, seems to be your problem. So you can/should focus on conquering your shyness, so also go here:

    Good luck to you! 🙂

  8. Henri Ducard said:

    First of all you must view it like this. Finding a person to have a relationship with is like buying a new car. To get the best deal, and to get what you want you have to show apathy. Be relaxed in other words. Don’t worry the worst thing that could happen is she could say she doesn’t feel that way about you. Just play it cool, show interest and instead of focusing on talking so much focus more on asking questions to get her to talk. Be a good listener.

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